Tuesday, November 3, 2009

HOOKED ON HAPPY: PART XII

I think I may be getting too hooked on happy so this may be the last blog on this subject for now. If I were giving it a title I would call it, "Pardon Me!".

For happiness and positivism to be part of your world on a regular basis you need to forgive yourself for whatever you may have done in the past that was and remains guiltifying. Most people mess up. Pat Conroy says, "Being an asshole is only another phrase for the human condition." (South of Broad, p.363.)

So, assuming no one but you got hurt, now is the time to forgive yourself and let go of old guilts that can embrace you like a worn quilt. We hopefully learned from our dumb mistakes. That is the really important part.

Now is the time to give it up for the good of your cause. Really terrible people receive pardons. The liklihood is you deserve one too. Grant it for yourself right now!!

Bye For Now,

Bill

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